32 Ways To Be Romantic On A Budget (Free and Cheap)

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Love is in the AIR! 32 ways to be romantic on a budget (free and cheap) is easier than you think. Small gestures and gifts from the heart are the most romantic of all. Especially the giving of your time. It costs nothing to make someone you love feel special. These ideas won’t break the bank because most of them are free and the rest are very inexpensive.

Whether it is a love note in their lunch or an afternoon spent just the two of you, making time for your relationship is so important. So put down those screens and maybe try one of these romantic ideas that won’t hurt the budget.

Yes, you can be romantic on a budget. The most important thing is to show your partner that you care about them and that you appreciate them. You don’t need to spend a lot of money to do that.

List Of 32 Ways To Be Romantic On A Budget (Free and Cheap)

• Hold hands
• Play Scrabble using only romantic words
• Breakfast in bed
• Give a plant
• Snuggle by the fire
• Candlelit dinner for two
• Make a card
• Watch the sunset
• Go on a bike ride
• Pick wildflowers
• Play music together
• Make them a playlist
• Full body massage
• Wash each other’s hair
• Share a box of chocolates
• Take a drive to a special place
• Have a friend do a romantic photoshoot
• Read Books Together
• Watch the sunrise
• Slow dance in the living room
• Take a romantic hike
• Movie night in with candles
• Write love notes to each other
• Go stargazing
• Kiss in the rain
• Give flowers for no reason
• See a Romcom in the afternoon
• Play a 2 player video game
• Draw a chocolate heart on their coffee
• Share a homemade dessert
• Give romantic heart cookies
• Eat some oysters to set the mood

Hold Hands

This is one of my favorites. The art of hand-holding is one of those small romantic gestures that can give your relationship a huge boost. When we hold hands with someone we love, feel good endorphins (oxytocin) are released. This boosts our overall mood and gives us a sense of security and those wonderful feelings of love.

Holding hands is a gesture that has been practiced for centuries. It is a way to show affection, support, and connection. There are many different reasons why people hold hands, and the meaning of holding hands can vary depending on the culture and context.

In some cultures, holding hands is a sign of respect. For example, in India, it is customary for a man to hold the hand of an older woman as a sign of respect. In other cultures, holding hands is a sign of friendship or love. For example, in the United States, it is common for friends to hold hands when they are walking together.

Winter is a wonderful time to bundle up and take an early morning walk. It’s so quiet, especially with newly fallen snow. Go before the rest of the world wakes up when it is just the two of you. Use this time to talk without all the distractions of daily life.

Holding hands can also be a way to show support. For example, if someone is going through a difficult time, their loved ones may hold their hand to show them that they are there for them. Holding hands can also be a way to show connection. For example, when two people are in love, they may hold hands as a way to feel close to each other.

The history of holding hands is long and complex. There are many different reasons why people hold hands, and the meaning of holding hands can vary depending on the culture and context. However, holding hands is a universal gesture that can be used to show a variety of emotions, including affection, support, and connection.

Play A Game

Playing a board game can be a great way to focus on your partner and have some fun. Break out that old scrabble board and make it romantic. Instead of just any words, challenge yourselves to only use words of LOVE!

How about a round of couple twister or a staring contest with a funny face? Be careful, it just may get you in the mood for love.

These are just a few ideas, but there are many other romantic board games out there. So gather your partner and pick one to play tonight!

• 20 Questions
• Truth or Dare
• Never Have I Ever
• Would You Rather
• Charades
• Pictionary
• Scrabble
• Monopoly
• Cards Against Humanity
• Just Dance
• Twister
• Jenga
• Connect Four
• Yahtzee (our favorite)
• Ches and checkers
• Backgammon

These are just a few ideas, there are many other great couples games out there.

Breakfast in bed

Nothin’ says Lovin’ like bringing your partner breakfast in bed. Imagine being cozy in bed and being surprised with a tray full of love. Add a flower in a vase to enhance the romance. My husband makes the best homemade waffles (recipe here). Don’t forget to warm up the syrup.

Here are some tips on how to serve breakfast in bed:

1. Set the scene. Make sure the bed is made and that the room is clean and tidy. You may also want to add some flowers or a candle to create a romantic atmosphere.
2. Choose the right food. Some good options for breakfast in bed include pancakes, waffles, French toast, eggs, bacon, sausage, and fruit.
3. Make it pretty. Arrange the food on a tray or in a basket and add some napkins, utensils, and a cup of coffee or tea.
4. Serve it with love. Present the breakfast to your loved one with a smile and a kiss.

Here are some additional tips:

• If you’re short on time, you can always order breakfast from a restaurant or coffee shop.
• If you’re on a budget, you can make breakfast in bed using simple ingredients that you already have on hand.
• If you’re feeling creative, you can get fancy with the presentation. For example, you could make a breakfast burrito in a tortilla or serve pancakes in a heart shape.
• The most important thing is to make your loved one feel special and loved.

Give A Houseplant

Instead of the traditional bouquet, how about giving a houseplant? There are all kinds to choose from and isn’t it romantic that they can keep it for years to come? Houseplants provide so many benefits to the home and this way you can be remembered always. I have several plants over 20 years old with stories of their own.

Giving a houseplant is a symbol of new beginnings, growth, and prosperity. It is a thoughtful gesture that shows that you care about the recipient and want them to have something beautiful to look at and care for.

Giving a houseplant shows the other person that you have trust in them to nurture and care for this beautiful green life. It shows commitment and thoughtfulness.

Some houseplants that symbolize love are:

• Orchids: These beautiful flowers are often given as a symbol of love and affection.
• Roses: Roses are another popular choice for a romantic gesture.
• Lilies: Lilies are said to represent purity and innocence, making them a perfect gift for a new relationship.
• Sunflowers: Sunflowers are a symbol of happiness and joy, making them a great choice for a houseplant that will always put a smile on your loved one’s face.
• Peace lilies: Peace lilies are said to bring peace and harmony to a home, making them a great choice for a houseplant that will promote love and happiness in your relationship.

Snuggle By A Fire

Dim the lights and light a fire. Put away all the day’s hassles and focus solely on each other. Hold hands or play “feet” (a little thing my hubby and I do). Give a back rub or just talk. It doesn’t really matter what you do as long as you are connected to the moment with one another.

Sometimes at the day’s end, you just need to reconnect. Put away all the screens and be in the moment. Try dedicating 10 minutes every night to doing just this.

Here are some tips on how to be romantic by a fire indoors and out:

• Cuddle up close to your partner and enjoy the warmth of the fire.
• Tell each other stories or poems.
• Sing songs together.
• Dance around the fire.
• Stargaze together.
• Give each other massages.
• Watch a movie together.
• Just relax and enjoy each other’s company.

The most important thing is to be present with your partner and enjoy the moment.

Candlelit Dinner For Two

Find a cozy spot in your home and set out the pretty dishes. Light candles to set the mood and make one of your favorite dinners. You can choose anything you like, it doesn’t have to cost a lot. Try making this easy homemade mac and cheese and no knead dinner rolls. Food from scratch is a beautiful gesture right from the heart. If you have kids, let them serve you dinner!

A candlelit dinner for two is a special occasion because it creates a romantic and intimate setting for two people to connect. The soft light from the candles creates a sense of warmth and intimacy, and the focus is on the two people sharing the meal. It is a great way to show someone you care about them and to spend quality time together.

Give Homemade Cards

I am so lucky that my husband is such a talented artist. Beautiful handmade cards are a lovely gift that I get on many occasions. Making something from scratch for your loved one shows so much thoughtfulness. It shows that you took the time to craft something, especially for them. This is just one of the many wonderful cards I have received over the years. Even the kids helped. These are things to be treasured always.

Here are some reasons why you should give a homemade card:

• It shows that you care enough to put in the extra effort.
• It’s a unique and personal gift that the recipient is sure to cherish.
• It’s a great way to express your feelings in a creative way.
• It’s a relatively inexpensive way to show your appreciation.
• It’s a great way to add a personal touch to any occasion.

Homemade cards are a great way to show someone how much you care. They are also a lot of fun to make, and the recipient is sure to appreciate the effort you put into it.

Watch The Sunset

A romantic sunset is a beautiful and memorable experience. The sky is ablaze with color, and the sun slowly sinks below the horizon. It is a time for couples to connect and share their love.

There are many ways to enjoy a romantic sunset. You can go for a walk on the beach, have a picnic in the park, or simply sit on your porch and watch the sky change colors. No matter what you do, make sure to take some time to appreciate this beautiful natural phenomenon.

Here are some tips for making the most of a romantic sunset:

• Find a spot with a clear view of the horizon.
• Bring a blanket or some chairs to sit on.
• Pack a picnic dinner or some snacks.
• Dress comfortably and warmly.
• Relax and enjoy the show!

A romantic sunset is a perfect opportunity to connect with your loved one. It is a time to forget about your troubles and just enjoy each other’s company. So next time you have the chance, take your partner to see a romantic sunset. You won’t regret it!

Head Out On A Romantic Bike Ride

Here are some tips for a romantic bike ride:

• Choose a scenic route with plenty of places to stop and enjoy the view.
• Pack a picnic lunch or snacks and drinks.
• Wear comfortable clothes and shoes that you can bike in.
• Bring a camera to capture the memories.
• Don’t forget to wear sunscreen and a hat!
• Enjoy the ride and the company of your loved one.

Here are some additional tips:

• If you’re not sure where to go, there are plenty of online resources that can help you plan your route.
• Make sure to check the weather forecast before you go so you can dress appropriately.
• If you’re planning on biking for a long distance, be sure to bring plenty of water and snacks.
• And most importantly, have fun!

Pick Wildflowers

Giving a gift of fresh wildflowers is a very romantic gesture that has been around for centuries.

• Wildflowers are beautiful and delicate flowers that grow in the wild.
• They can be found in many different parts of the world, and they come in a variety of colors and shapes.
• Picking wildflowers can be a fun and relaxing activity, and it is a great way to appreciate the beauty of nature.
• Here are some tips for picking wildflowers responsibly:
  • Only pick wildflowers that are abundant in the area.
  • Do not pick wildflowers that are rare or endangered.
  • Be sure to replant the wildflowers that you pick, so that they can continue to grow and thrive.
  • Leave the area clean and free of litter.
  • Respect the property of others.
  • Be aware of the laws in your area regarding picking wildflowers.

Play Music Together

Grab the guitar and play a sweet melody for your loved one. Music is the perfect gift to set the mood and relax.

Here are some tips on how to play music together romantically:

• Choose songs that you both love and that have special meaning to you.
• Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down, where you can both relax and enjoy the music.
• Take turns singing or playing instruments, or just listen to the music together.
• Close your eyes and let the music take you away.
• Dance, cuddle, or simply enjoy each other’s company.
• The most important thing is to have fun and connect with each other through the music.

Make A Playlist

• Start by thinking about the songs that remind you of your partner. What are your favorite songs to listen to together? What songs make you feel happy and loved?
• Once you have a few songs in mind, start building your playlist. You can add songs from different genres, but make sure they all have a romantic vibe.
• Don’t forget to add some slow jams and ballads! These are perfect for cuddling up and getting intimate.
• Once you’re happy with your playlist, give it a listen and see how it makes you feel. If it doesn’t feel quite right, keep adding or removing songs until you find the perfect mix.
• Finally, share your playlist with your partner and enjoy a romantic evening together!

Here are some additional tips:

• Consider your partner’s taste in music. What are their favorite genres? What are some songs that they’ve told you they love?
• Think about the mood you want to create with your playlist. Do you want it to be sexy, romantic, or just relaxing?
• Don’t forget to add some variety to your playlist. Include songs from different genres and eras.
• If you’re not sure where to start, there are plenty of pre-made romantic playlists available online.
• The most important thing is to choose songs that mean something to you and your partner.

Give Each Other A Full Body Massage

Start with the head all the way to the toes. Learn about certain touches that your partner enjoys. Use lotions and dim the lights. Take turns focusing just on each.

Wash Each Other’s Hair

You know how good it feels in the hair salon, now try it at home with someone you love. Get extra suds and give them a deep massage – behind the ears, at the nape of the neck. Gently scrub all over (give some kisses while you work) and lovingly rinse clean.

Share Some Chocolate

Chocolate is thought to be an aphrodisiac from the time of the Aztecs. It releases soothing chemicals in your brain that elevate your mood. Eating chocolate together is a great way to come together in a perfect state of desire and relaxation.

Melt some chocolate in a microwave-safe dish stirring at 30-second intervals until melted. Dip your favorite treats in can feed each other. Here are some suggestions:

• Strawberries
• Bananas
• Diced-up pound cake
• Potato Chips (yes yum)
• Pretzels
• Cookies
• Just put some on your finger and lick it off

Take A Drive To A Special Place

This could be anywhere you love or share a memory. Maybe your first date or first kiss. Maybe a spot that you two have enjoyed. This is a picture of where my husband and I got married. We love to go there and reminisce.

Here are some tips for a romantic drive:

• Choose a scenic route with plenty of places to stop and enjoy the view.
• Pack a picnic lunch or snacks and drinks.
• Wear comfortable clothes and shoes that you can drive in.
• Bring a camera to capture the memories.
• Don’t forget to wear sunscreen and a hat!
• Enjoy the ride and the company of your loved one.

Here are some additional tips:

• If you’re not sure where to go, there are plenty of online resources that can help you plan your route.
• Make sure to check the weather forecast before you go so you can dress appropriately.
• If you’re planning on driving for a long distance, be sure to bring plenty of water and snacks.
• And most importantly, have fun!

Do A Romantic Photoshoot

Find a friend willing to take some fun and playful shots of you and your partner. Be silly and romantic, engage with each other, and have the photos be natural. Laugh, dance, hugs, and hold hands.

Read Books Together

From old books to hobby books to steamy love stories… the content doesn’t really matter. It is about spending time together.

Here are some tips on how to read together:

1. Choose a book that you both enjoy.
2. Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down.
3. Take turns reading aloud.
4. Pause frequently to discuss the story.
5. Make sure to look at each other while you are reading.
6. Enjoy the experience!

Reading together is a great way to connect with your partner and share a special moment. It can also be a fun and relaxing activity.

Watch The Sunrise

This one is for me. I love the quiet calm in the early morning hours before the rest of the world wakes up. Dawn is such a peaceful time with the start of something wonderful. How better to start your day than with someone special? Brew a pot of tea or coffee and grab a blanket. Find a comfy spot to sit and enjoy the sun’s return.

Here are some of the best ways to watch the sunrise:

• Go to a high place with a clear view of the horizon.
• Find a spot near water, such as a beach or a lake.
• Watch from a park or garden.
• Get up early and watch from your own backyard.
• Travel to a location where the sunrise is particularly beautiful, such as a national park or a mountaintop.

No matter where you watch it, the sunrise is a beautiful and awe-inspiring sight. So get up early one morning and enjoy it!

Slow Dance In The Living Room

Turn the radio up for that sweet sound…hold me close never let me go…. Grab your sweetie tight and take a spin around with living room to your favorite songs. Maybe from that playlist, I suggested above.

Go On A Romantic Hike

There are plenty of trails to be explored. Search online in your area to find the best ones.

Here are some tips on how to plan a romantic hike:

• Choose a trail that is appropriate for your fitness level and experience.
• Pack plenty of water and snacks.
• Wear comfortable shoes and clothing.
• Be sure to tell someone where you are going and when you expect to be back.
• Start early in the morning so you can enjoy the cooler temperatures and avoid the crowds.
• Take your time and enjoy the scenery.
• Stop for lunch at a scenic spot.
• End your hike with a romantic dinner.

Have A Movie Night In With Candles

Pop some popcorn and light some candles. Pick out a romantic comedy, a funny favorite, or something scary. Grab some big cozy blankets and snuggle up. It is the perfect time to be close.

Write Random Love Notes

Nothing is more special than finding cute little love notes on the kitchen counter, the bathroom mirror, or in your lunch bag. It is the perfect way to say I love you without all the fuss. It only takes seconds to make someone feel important.

Go Stargazing

Here are some tips on how to go stargazing:

• Find a dark spot away from city lights.
• Allow your eyes to adjust to the darkness for about 20 minutes.
• Use binoculars or a telescope to see the stars more clearly.
• Identify the constellations.
• Look for shooting stars.
• Enjoy the beauty of the night sky.

Kiss In The Rain

Ever watched “The Notebook” well you can re-enact that passionate kiss in the rain. There is something about the rain that is full of energy- it is intense and calming at the same time.

The rainy season is a time of romance. A time to be cozy and reconnect, to cancel all those other plans that you really didn’t want to do anyway. Spend time with your partner when the skies open up.

Give Flowers For No Reason

Head down to the local market and pick up a bouquet. Put them in a vase on the table or nightstand as a surprise. Shouldn’t cost much to show how much love you have.

Go To A RomCom In The Afternoon

Time for some love in the afternoon? Head to the movies. Seeing a matinee is not only less expensive but you might be the only ones there.

Play A 2-Player Video Game

Cuddle up on the couch with your loved one and play some video games. What a fun way to spend some time with that special someone. I suggest Mario Kart, Original Mario Golf (it’s awesome), Donkey Kong, Unravel 2, Monopoly, and The Forgotten Land.

Make a Special Drink

Make your loved one a special coffee drink by drawing a heart of chocolate on top. What a great way to warm the heart.

Share A Dessert

Nothing says loving like sweet desserts. Take turns feeding each other and let the happiness endorphins dance.

Here are some tips on how to enjoy dessert:

• Take your time and savor each bite.
• Eat it in a comfortable and relaxing setting.
• Share it with someone you love.
• Pair it with a nice cup of coffee or tea.
• Don’t forget to enjoy the presentation!
• And most importantly, have fun!

Make Romantic Cookies

Have fun, go wild, and let the love shine through!

Here are some tips on how to bake in love:

• Choose a recipe that you both love.
• Make sure to have all of the ingredients on hand.
• Take your time and enjoy the process.
• Be patient and don’t get discouraged if things don’t go perfectly.
• Share your baked goods with someone you love.
• Enjoy the taste of love!

Eat Some Oysters

Oysters have long been thought of as a natural aphrodisiac. This food is thought to enhance sexual desire and performance. Combine this with a chocolate dessert and you should be all set.

Search online for a restaurant near you that serves oysters – either dine in or get them to go.

Wrapping Up

Whether it is a special occasion or not, there is always room for a little more romance. These 32 ways to be romantic on a budget (free and cheap) can be easy and heartfelt. Check out this list of awesome and inexpensive staycation ideas – some are romantic!

I hope these ideas give you some inspiration to help keep the spark going in your relationship. It is so important that we take the time to connect especially when life becomes so busy. Small gestures can keep us bonded together in love and romance.

Cheers,

Sarah